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Not sure-What now??? - 11/26/2008 3:20:33 PM
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st8ofconfusion
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Not much change since last post. My husband is still gone. We met again with the pastor lastnight and I know he felt like he was being attacked even though that wasn't what was meant. The pastor just told him how much he missed him and how he still needed his church family. He asked if moving out made him think about us any and if he had any goals set for his marriage now. All my husband could say was he had no goals yet, just working through "his issues" and he still has no desire to work on the marriage right now he feels no hope. I still have hope, because I love my husband and am committed to him. I vowed to God that I would take him and love him through everything--even the hard times and I am choosing not to give up as easily as he has. God does work miracles and takes care of us ALWAYS!!! I know by his word that a marriage is suppose to be forever and we are to work together through the storms that rage against us by the devil. God gives me renewed strength daily and just when I think I can't take anymore, I am filled again with the desire of the Holy Spirit. Praise God!!!
My husband gets upset because his family is really supportive of me. They keep telling him they can condon what he is doing because they too don't feel it is right for a man to just walk out on his family. His mother calls me every other day to check on me and my daughter and continues to tell him he is doing wrong and that God isn't happy with him and he needs to look really hard at what he is doing because we reep what we sow. I got back and hour ago from picking my daughter up from school and my sister-in-law took me in the back and told me that her husband (my husbands brother) just called her and said they were taking my husband to the hospital. He was doubled over in pain at work sick. They did a CT scan and found he has a 6mm kidney stone. My husband is a health nut-he is a personal trainer and takes extremely good care of hisself. He didn't want me coming up there so he had his work call his brother. I was really upset because I feel he should've called me. I understand though why he didn't but it still hurts. They just called back and said that he can't drive for the next few days, he must consult a urologist asap, and he can't be alone because of his pain level and the medicine they gave him. Don't know what to do. He may go to his mothers house but will be miserable there. I don't know why he just can't see how much I love him and want to take care of him. Is this one of those reep what you sow things??? I asked God yesterday to do what he needed to do for us by shutting all the doors that the devil has so conveniently opened and allow him to see God's way--is this it??? Help, need some advise.
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RE: Not sure-What now??? - 11/26/2008 3:36:14 PM
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csl7037
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Pray for him. He's miserable and living in this kind of turmoil is literally making him sick. It is so sad to me because I thought for so long that the tension in my marriage was just from "my issues" and as soon as I got my head above water (although my attempts to help myself were pathetic at best) everything would fix itself. The thing is, in a marriage, your problems are not your own. His problems are yours even if he tries to run away from them and from you. And we really can only deal with the hurts and issues that come with life together because that's how God designed us and that's why He designed marriage.
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RE: Not sure-What now??? - 11/26/2008 4:04:54 PM
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Please continue in your other thread. LINK To start more than one thread for the same situation is considered spam and a violation of our Terms of Service.
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